It is important to understand that many men cheat because men need validation. When they come into the world they are born of women and getting their validation from mommy is the beginning of needing it from a woman. And when the wife does not focus in on the needs and the feelings, sexually, personally to make him feel like a man, to make him feel like a success, to make him feel like a hero, he's very susceptible to the charms of some other woman making him feel what he needs. And these days women don't spend a lot of time thinking about how they can give a man what they need…it is more about what they need.
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Thursday, January 5, 2012
Why men cheat?
Experts have different opinions why men cheat. Of course there are men out there who choose to cheat because they care more about themselves then their partner and choose to be unfaithful. Then there are men who cheat because they have a powerful role and some powerful men sometimes feel an unwarranted sense of entitlement. When a person is in a high position of power, especially a man, there is a sense of entitlement and a sense of being...above the law because of the importance of what they do - because of the importance of who they are. However there are many more men out there that cheat because they are missing something physically, mentally, or emotionally in their relationship with someone. This “someone” may be with themselves or their partner.
It is important to understand that many men cheat because men need validation. When they come into the world they are born of women and getting their validation from mommy is the beginning of needing it from a woman. And when the wife does not focus in on the needs and the feelings, sexually, personally to make him feel like a man, to make him feel like a success, to make him feel like a hero, he's very susceptible to the charms of some other woman making him feel what he needs. And these days women don't spend a lot of time thinking about how they can give a man what they need…it is more about what they need.
It is important to understand that many men cheat because men need validation. When they come into the world they are born of women and getting their validation from mommy is the beginning of needing it from a woman. And when the wife does not focus in on the needs and the feelings, sexually, personally to make him feel like a man, to make him feel like a success, to make him feel like a hero, he's very susceptible to the charms of some other woman making him feel what he needs. And these days women don't spend a lot of time thinking about how they can give a man what they need…it is more about what they need.
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