A love affair with your spouse…it can happen to you!

There are principles a husband and wife can use in marriage that will not just hold your marriage together, but also unite you and your mate as lovers in a relationship that becomes more wonderful every day. Are you ready to start and continue a love affair with your husband or wife?

A love affair, born out of commitment, encompasses far more than just commitment. The thrill of romance, the pleasure of friendship, the tranquility of belonging, and the sweetness of intimacy must be an integral part of marriage in order to have a marriage like no other.

Learn the principles below and apply all of them to your marriage each and every day. An intimate relationship seldom improves spontaneously and a troubled relationship almost never gets better on its own. There is no happiness pill to having a happy marriage, but if you follow the principles below, you can learn how to love in such a way that there will be a responding love from your partner. If you have a good relationship now, it will become so much better that you will be thrilled and amazed.  

·         Cleave to your partner. Drawing you together and cementing your relationship.

·         Make your relationship a #1 priority. Provide the right emotional climate always.

·         The gift of belonging. Give yourself to each other in mind, body, and spirit.

·         Good feelings will come after good behaviors. Good behaviors lead the good feelings. If you’re not in love, practice meeting needs and good behaviors.

·         Become best friends. Cherish friendship.

·         Learn how to love in ways that speaks love and meets needs.

·         A positive sexual relationship. Usually this occurs when all other areas are solid.

·         Romantic love. A learned response to the way your partner looks and feels. Thinking about your partner and concentrating on positive experiences and pleasures. Anticipating future pleasures. The frequency and intensity of these positive, warm, erotic, tender thoughts about your partner will govern your success in falling in love and staying in love.

·         Agape love. Giving 100% always and focusing on your partner’s happiness and wellbeing. Unconditional giving and consistently behaving with love no matter how you feel.

·         Secret of staying in love is intimacy. To touch emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally throughout your marriage.

·         BEST. Blessing. Edifying. Sharing. Touch.

·         Remove barriers. Win the “war” with no war.

A love affair between husband and wife must be kept in constant repair and always on the growing edge. If you want to master the art of loving and want to obtain the rewards of a tremendously happy marriage, you are going to have to learn the principles of building love into your marriage and practice them on a daily basis. Above all, you must want to learn and be willing to pour your very life into it. It is worth the effort.