Stop telling everyone about your relationship. Ladies, stop relying on other women to help you fix your problems. I’m not saying we can’t ever talk to friends and family and vent from time to time. I’m saying that the relationship between husband and wife is sacred and private. Your family and friends should not be involved in your relationship. Other people involved in your relationship leads to more tension, resentment, and problems. Besides, have you ever thought about how your partner would feel about you mentioning details and issues about your relationship? Many men out there feel it is disrespectful.
To be quite frank with you, most women are giving you bad advice anyways. Most women have little understanding about men, and these are the women giving advice. It takes a special woman to keep her relationship sacred, private, and protected. Tell God your problems, not your girlfriends and family.
From time to time, a man wants to communicate on an intimate level with his wife. The more we listen with our hearts, the more they will speak from their hearts. In order for this level of communication to take place, a man must feel completly safe, trusting that you would never divulge a confidence or share his heart with anyone else. If he does not have that assurance, you most likely will not have the honor of engaging in the deepest level of intimate friendship. When a man feels he can share his heart without betrayal, judgement, or condemenation, he will take his woman to new depths of his soul that many leave unexplored. So, listen uninterrupted with your heart and mind. Ask open ended questions and engage. Don't judge or offer opinions and advice...unless he asks for it. Be a great listener and a great friend to your husband. Most of all, keep your conversations and relationship private and sacred among all other things.
From time to time, a man wants to communicate on an intimate level with his wife. The more we listen with our hearts, the more they will speak from their hearts. In order for this level of communication to take place, a man must feel completly safe, trusting that you would never divulge a confidence or share his heart with anyone else. If he does not have that assurance, you most likely will not have the honor of engaging in the deepest level of intimate friendship. When a man feels he can share his heart without betrayal, judgement, or condemenation, he will take his woman to new depths of his soul that many leave unexplored. So, listen uninterrupted with your heart and mind. Ask open ended questions and engage. Don't judge or offer opinions and advice...unless he asks for it. Be a great listener and a great friend to your husband. Most of all, keep your conversations and relationship private and sacred among all other things.
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