If you are always negative and weeping, you have no courage or character.
It is a spiritual fact that kindness kills wickedness far more than nagging, complaining, or disrespect.
Let God be God and let him work on things with your husband, instead of complaining.
Do things without complaining or arguing. Resentment and bitterness will only keep you from being spiritually productive in that relationship.
All of this nagging, nitpicking, and criticizing that men routinely get from their wives results in them trying harder for a little while and then giving up.
Men are impressed by honesty, not manipulation, nagging, yelling, crying, or emotional blackmail.
Men least admire emotional manipulation, complaining, nagging, controlling through hurt or anger, ability to verbally rip apart their soul, having to always get your way, gossip, moodiness, talking to much without solving, emotions that dominate rationality or the truth, constant demand for validation, and not letting the man be a man.
(Dr. Laura Schlessinger, The proper care and feeding of husbands)
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