You should know by now, women want to feel loved! We want to feel beautiful, adored, cherished, honored, satisfied, safe, emotionally and financially stable, and like the only woman in the world for you! Some women even feel loved when you help around the house or when you do other household things for them. Other women like myself, don’t care much about men helping around the house but there are many women who feel loved by helping them in those ways. To me, a man cutting the grass, fixing our cars, paying the most important bills and taking care of “manly things” is enough. The point is we want to feel loved and matter of fact, we need to feel loved. Just like respect is a “man’s oxygen”, love is a “woman’s oxygen”. We need it and have to feel it.
Cherishing your woman and taking her for granted is so easy to do once you have been together for a long time. That is no excuse though. Learn what makes her feel special and do it. Yes, speaking our love language and meeting our needs is VERY important. However, every now and then we need to feel extra special, appreciated, and important.
Romance goes both ways. Women can definitely romance their husbands and should. A husband should also think of ways to romance his wife. Sometimes it’s the small things that really speak to my heart. So, big or small…it is important to make her feel like she is the only woman for you! Letters, cards, flowers, dinner reservations, a walk, weekend getaway, laundry, conversation, affection, physical touch, whatever it is…make sure it is a big part of your relationship.
Honor your woman by putting her first (after God), being honest and open, by being faithful to her, by not jeopardizing your relationship, by respecting her, and remaining true to her every day.
Don’t take her for granted because before you know it…sooner or later, her love bank will be so empty that she will be gone. If you are one of the lucky men out there and have a really good woman, cherish and honor her every day.
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