Ladies, you are going to get a lot of love reflected back if you concentrate on the giving rather than nag about the receiving. You both will be happier because your marriage will be stronger. We women must be smart and make our husbands feel loved the way we want to feel loved.
Men’s feelings, needs, and desires need to be relevant and important to a woman.
It is not ALL about your feelings and desires. You cannot be consumed with “what’s in it for me” than the concern about taking care of your man, it is better to be loved than to be right all the time.
A happily married woman cannot have her complete focus on her own happiness, her problems, her agenda, and her future. Your husband’s job is not to do everything to please you. You need to focus on him more and then you will see how much of a delight it is to see how much happier he has become.
Love your man and stand behind your man. Make him more important than yourself and consider his feelings above yours. It will actually work out that you get everything you possibly want. You will adore doing things for him because you love him. You will love being your man’s woman. You will love him opening his heart to you. Being a true real woman can bring you more happiness and more love than focusing on you first.
A real woman is someone who has no shame in being a wife and mother. A real woman is available emotionally, spiritually, and physically for her man. She is selfless, and in doing so, loves herself because she has so much to offer.
A man not having that feeling of importance, being ignored, marginalized, disrespected, and then belittled for expressing his pain experiences a level of pain that is unbearable.
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