Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Woman power

Women want and rely on getting the most out of their husband's. They need their needs to be met and they want to more importantly feel loved, respected, and cherished. The first step to a rewarding relationship is to really understand your woman power. So many women have been brought up on the feminist platform rather than being taught the true power of a woman. You dont have to fight for love, respect, attention, authority, and independance. That will have you feeling lonely, scared, and angry. You will experience weakness, not strength, and a sense of victimhood, not power. It is the small everyday choices that can keep your marriage strong and loving. Learn how to better honor and take care of your husband. Get to know your husband and truly understand him. Find out the exact behaviors that makes him feel respected, loved, appreciated, accepted, trusted, believed in, and supported. Find out exactly what makes him feel close to you, ask him what his needs are and what he expects from you as a friend, wife, and life partner? Make it a priority to wake up every day and do the things that make him feel happy. Make it a priority to learn and meet his needs. That is true woman power.

Be a friend to him, be a part of his world in every possible way, be a part of his team. Learn the ways to make him happy and satisfied and change the behaviors that don’t make him completely happy. Never stop being your husband's girlfriend and lover, and you will have the best of him as a man. Men live for the same approval, appreciation, affection and attention that they yearned for from their mother. When he does get that from you, he is better able to conquer the world, and will be completely devoted to you. When women "get it" and "use it", their men, their marriage, and their lives are transformed.

If you want to get the best out of your husband, you have to be willing to give 100% unconditionally. If you have a healthy partner and a good man, you will get 100% back. GIVE! Giving contributes to a positive, happy, emotionally intelligent, and rewarding relationship. This is how you can receive the love that you really need and how you can have your needs met. Real love is not a 50/50 affair; it's 100/100. You give all and your spouse gives all. Together you create something that didn't exist before--real love and commitment.

 
I hope after reading my blog, I can inspire women out there to gain the power needed to create a much happier and fulfilling relationship with their spouse. I hope to help you understand your man better and learn how to meet his needs. I hope to give you the tools and advice to create a relationship that allows for closeness, oneness, friendship, intimacy and more.  A relationship that gives you all the satisfaction and happiness that you deserve. Treat your man with respect, love, appreciation, affection, attention, affirmation, and support. Give him the best of you...the happy you, the non controlling you, the nagging less you. A good man will put you on a pedestal the same way you have for him.


Remember...it is about a change in heart, mind, spirit, and attitude.

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