The love bank is a way to gage how much you feel loved and how much your partner feels loved. When your needs are met and you feel happy and fulfilled, your love bank is full and sometimes even over flowing. When you are not meeting each other’s needs or doing the things that make each other feel the most loved, then your love banks are empty or not as full as it should be.
Overtime someone’s love bank can be completely empty that they fall out of love. It’s important that you learn the actions and behaviors that contribute to you filling up each other’s love banks.
Deposits & Withdrawals
Our words & actions towards each other. We need to focus on depositing in the love bank and avoiding withdrawals.
Almost everything we do every day affects our love for each other, positively or negatively.
Instincts & Habits
Instincts are behavioral patterns that we are born with, and habits are patterns we learn.
Our instincts and habits make up most of our behavior, and our behavior makes the deposits and withdrawals.
It’s important to learn the habits that make deposits and avoid withdrawals.
Stop destructive instincts and habits in their tracks. Instincts are harder to stop, but both can be avoided.
Learning your instincts and habits and avoiding the negative behavior will help you make deposits instead of withdrawals into each other’s love bank.
Love Busters
Guard your account in your spouse’s love bank from withdrawals by paying close attention to how your everyday behavior can make each other unhappy.
By eliminating love busters you will be protecting your spouse’s love for you.
Love busters for men usually are drama, disrespect, dishonesty, nagging, yelling, arguing, demanding, and selfishness.
(Dr. Willard Harley, Fall in love, stay in love)
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