His needs, Her needs

Ten most important emotional needs:

Sexual fulfillment
Domestic support
An attractive spouse
Admiration
Recreational companionship
Honesty & openness
Conversation
Affection
Family commitment
Financial support

(Dr. Willard Harley, His needs/her needs)

To make sure you are meeting your partner's needs...you have to first know what they are. Men and women have different needs and most of us have the needs listed above. Ask your partner what their top 5 needs are and your job is to meet those needs. 

Meeting your partner's needs will make them feel happy, satisfied, and fulfilled. Not only will they benefit, but you will benefit because they will feel so good that all they want to do is please you in return...and that is how your needs will be met as well. 

Now, this only works for people who have a "healthy partner". If your partner is abusive or suffers from depression and other problems, they need professional help first. They are not healthy enough to understand the concept of meeting needs in a relationship. 

A relationship that consists of 2 people doing their very best to meet each others needs is a very rewarding relationship. Every day, you should ask yourself "what can I do today to make my partner feel happy and fulfilled?" Meeting each others most important emotional needs helps keep your relationship from dealing with infidelity. If your partner is happy, satisfied, and fulfilled...why would they go elsewhere? Men especially find someone else, because they did not feel good about themselves with you. The "other woman" made him feel good about himself. Affair proof your marriage by meeting each others most important emotional needs. Most people in a relationship have no clue what their partner's most important emotional needs are and that is one reason why so many people end in divorce.

A man cannot meet a woman's needs without his needs being met first. That is just the way it works. Ladies, it starts with us! We have the power to have greater intimacy in our relationships. Today, ask your partner what his needs are and use the list above to help you. Make a list of your partner's needs and start meeting their needs each and every day! Women tend to complain alot about not feeling loved. Alot of times, it is only because the husband is not understood and his needs are not being met. 

Also, one need that is not on this list above is "stop the nagging". Believe me, most men want you to stop! You will get so much more out of your man by understanding him, his needs, and what really makes him feel fulfilled! 

Treat your man like a king and if he is a good man, he will treat you like a queen...and I know that is what you want and deserve.